Relationship help! helpp me please!!?

okay well first off my friend has 2 ex that i like soo much! thier everythin i want in a guy!! but i cnat date them because she still has feeling for them and she will get pissed at me if i date them but what should i do?Also my ex snet me a random txt sayin if i loved him? doe he love me or somthin? and finally thiers this guy htat im rly intol his name is kyle we dated 2 befor i loved him so much he was my first and only lover (so far) i really want o get him back but how? he also has a girlfrei that hes madly in love wiht i cry my sleep ever night n i just cnat seem to get over him what should i do?? i dont wnat to move on i cnat, i feel like we were meant to be but thats not how he feels...